夫妻由来
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">夫妻是男女双方以永久共同为目的的依法结合的伴侣。男女因结婚成为夫妻。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><BR>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">丈夫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">的由来</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">人们通常谈到夫妇时,夫多被称为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">丈夫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">,妻子则被叫做</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">老婆</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">。这两种叫法、习俗相沿至今。原来,在我国有些部落,有抢婚的习俗。女子选择夫婿,主要看这个男子是否够高度,一般以身高一丈为标准。当时的一丈约等于七尺</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">那时的一尺约合现在的六寸多</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">,有了这个身高一丈的夫婿,才可以抵御强人的抢婚。根据这种情况,女子都称她所嫁的男人为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">丈夫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">妻子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">的由来</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">妻</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">最早《礼记</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">·</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">曲礼下》载:</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">天子之妃曰后,诸侯曰夫人,大夫曰孺人,庶人曰妻。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">看来那时的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">妻</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">只是平民百姓的配偶,是没有身份的。后来,</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">妻</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">才渐渐成为所有男人配偶的通称。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"> <SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">妻</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">的别称很多。古代无论官职大小通称妻为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">孺人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">。卿大夫的嫡妻称为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">内子</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">” </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">,泛指妻妾为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">内人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">。妻还被称为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">内助</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">,意为帮助丈夫处理家庭内部事务的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">贤内助</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">成为好妻子的美称。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P>原文由 三省克己 发表</P><P>:<FONT face=隶书 color=#0000ff size=6><STRONG> 也有事实夫妻。<br><HR><br><HR></STRONG></FONT></P><FONT face=隶书 color=#0000ff size=6><STRONG>随着时代的发展,什么事都在变,新名不断出现!</STRONG></FONT> 也有事实夫妻。 <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">夫妻是男女双方以永久共同为目的的依法结合的伴侣。男女因结婚成为夫妻。</SPAN> 原文由 木牛青 发表: <IMG height=385 src="http://www.flowercn.com/flower_picture/meiguihua/images/r01.jpg" width=513> <br><HR><STRONG><FONT face=隶书 color=#ff0000 size=7>谢谢木牛青的玫瑰花!</FONT></STRONG><HR><br><HR><br><HR> <IMG height=385 src="http://www.flowercn.com/flower_picture/meiguihua/images/r01.jpg" width=513> <FONT size=6> <EM><FONT color=#f70909>妻——现在叫法多多,屋里的,老蒯,老婆,女人,内人......爱人、老伴、那口子、老东西这是男女双方的统称。</FONT></EM></FONT> <FONT face=隶书 color=#6600ff size=6>现在知道了,谢谢楼主。</FONT> <P><STRONG><FONT face=幼圆 color=#ff0066 size=6>原来如此啊.</FONT></STRONG></P> 学习了 哦 原文由 泽雅 发表: <FONT size=6> <EM><FONT color=#f70909>妻——现在叫法多多,屋里的,老蒯,老婆,女人,内人......爱人、老伴、那口子、老东西这是男女双方的统称。<br><HR></FONT><FONT color=#f709f7><STRONG> 孩子他妈,媳妇儿,对象,贤内助,后勤部长----</STRONG></FONT></EM></FONT> 原文由 三省克己 发表: 也有事实夫妻。 <FONT face=华文行楷 size=5><BIG>也有名义夫妻,也叫无性夫妻! 现实社会中,有一部分人,由于种种原因,多年没有了真正的夫妻生活,为了子女,为了面子,凑合着过吧!</BIG></FONT> <P>原文由 阿庆嫂 发表: 原文由 三省克己 发表: 也有事实夫妻。 <FONT face=华文行楷 size=5><BIG>也有名义夫妻,也叫无性夫妻! 现实社会中,有一部分人,由于种种原因,多年没有了真正的夫妻生活,为了子女,为了面子,凑合着过吧!</BIG></FONT> </P><P><HR><br><HR></P><P>说的对。</P>
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